Ms L and the art of foodgasm

Seb:  L has a very unique ability.  She has from a very young age had the capacity to be aroused to the extent where she orgasms spontaneously by any number of everyday activities. 

L:  When I say aroused doing nonsexual actiivty to the point of orgasm, that is indeed the case. Walking down the street can set me off if I’m wearing the right shoes with thin nylon hose. Riding a roller coaster. Tickling my arm. Holding my hand sets me off, so I prefer quick handshakes or none at all. Hugging me can set me off, so I often don’t want one from someone I don’t know. Pissing used to set me off a lot but that disturbed my once husband immensely so I managed to reprogramme my brain to move it to just when I’m showering and pissing at the same time. And then I chose to not piss in the shower. Job done. Jets in the hot tub on my feet or hands sends me off.

Many of my partners see how long they can keep me going. I remember at age 19 after an hour with 100 we both were exhausted and stopped.  One partner does public play, where he has me oh’ing in public and having to remain standing and fall down.’

Seb:  How does he make you orgasm?

‘I have PSAS; he just has to kiss me or give me a knowing glance. Sometimes he strokes my arm or hand at the dinner table.’

Seb:  When did all this begin?  Was it when you reached adulthood or later?

When I was a kid. I didn’t understand the difference between clitoral orgasms, vaginal ones, and free-from-touch ones. They’re all… different and yet the same. The intensity is what varies. So, when I do a clitoral one myself and hold back and wait and wait and wait, it’s pretty intense. But when someone else is touching me I can’t hold back and it’s milder. At first, anyway, it gets stronger as they keep going on and on and it eventually gets as strong and intense as the ones I do on my ownsome. So, that clicks. Now I realize they’re all the same. And about then, sometime after I had that sort of lovemaking with a lover, that is when I realized that all those tickle fights at a young age with my siblings for me ended up being tantamount incest since I REALLY liked losing one heck of a lot more than anyone else did.

Seb:  Do you use your orgasms, and the things that bring them on, as a form of relaxation?

L:   No; it’s not relaxing to have an oh. It’s relaxing AFTER a big oh. Having a big one or loads of little ones and then some snuggling and that helps me to fall asleep. Nerves are all afire before and during.

Of course it would make life very difficult if L were to be orgasming constantly, and L has developed strong mental control over her orgasm reflex.

L:  The only way to control it is to think about something else. On the plus side, that leads to a Mensa level IQ to think so bloody hard about other things.  The way I control my orgasms (I don’t at work, for example) is I get “in the zone” headspace of complex planning and structuring.

Seb:  So you can maintain control all day long?

L:  I can always occupy my mind provided there are no sweethearts (attractive men) in the room. Even when there are I can do it if they’re not touching me.

Seb:  I am tickled by the idea of the control and power over you that your unique abilities automatically give to guys you like. It must shape the way you relate to certain men quite a lot, requiring plenty of trust.

L:  Agreed. I also don’t shake hands or hug total strangers who are sexy. Don’t give them an opening. Unless they’re also a catch as well as cute!

Seb:  It is totally reasonable that you should only reserve your special orgasmic powers for men who are worth it!  Is there much distinction for you in where you are touched? 

L:  I have one non-erogenous zone; my back. There’s less pressure nerves on the back so perhaps that’s why.

Seb:  I was reading your description of meeting a guy you liked and experiencing multiple orgasms just as a result of your interest and conversation with him. I can’t imagine why a man would find that intimidating – I find it quite sweet – that your mental engagement with someone and your feelings for them just in conversation can cause you to orgasm so much – almost as if orgasms are a way you experience positive emotions.

L:  Yeah. It’s definitely human focused. I met a guy last night at a Torture Garden party and had about 25 oh’s or thereabouts. It’s really hard to count after a while. That was just doing things like assisting him with his ropes (feeling it sliding in my palms working with it), getting my scalp massaged, him kissing my feet. These were low level ones. I had two mid-strength ohs when he tickled my armpits.

Seb:  One thing that strikes me is that you have so many public orgasms and in different situations. For example you describe climaxing while massaging your date’s back waiting in a queue for food. For most women standing while orgasming would be difficult – are you able to remain completely still or do you betray what is happening in your movements enough that someone watching closely would know what was going on?

L:  Short brief ones I can usually stand. It helps to be seated or leaning against something! Usually by cumming early it’s weaker in strength and I manage to hold myself together. if I had delayed it due to fear, then finally came, it would be much stronger and then I would not be able to stand.

Seb:  Is that self control something you have always had or was there a stage when you were younger when you orgasmed at random moments much more regularly?

L:  I used to be able to hold back longer, but that was in the bedroom. The longest I ever held back was half an hour because I didn’t want to cum getting my ear kissed. I told the man I was with it was all above the neck stuff so he kept kissing my ear. When I finally came it was a tidal wave.

I specifically remember the first time I came from eating food; So I’m thinking it increased as I got older, not decreased.

Seb:  Having such control, do you go for days without orgasms sometimes or do you allow yourself some orgasms throughout the day?

L:  I just sort of have them during quiet moments or surprising ones. So, like, yesterday I was having breakfast and I had the fried blood from a slice of bacon and it was intensely salty so bam! I wasn’t expecting it. And I went to a FetFair yesterday and had three from all the eye candy on display.

Seb:  What a very unique and wonderful way to experience the world! It is almost as though all your senses are wired to your orgasm reflex – taste, touch, sight. What about sound and smell?

L:  Sound, smell, not so much. Breath in my ear, wow! Percussive “P” in my ear, BAM!

While some find Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome (PSAS) a very difficult condition to live with, L takes a very different view, perhaps because it has been such a long term and constant part of her. 

Seb:  you really do have a very interesting life Lizzy. I love the way you seem to turn your psas into an immensely positive thing. Such pleasure… and a pleasure to read too. 

L:  I rather didn’t even realize some people thought it was a problem. I kind of knew I was a little different, but I didn’t realize anyone who was wired this way would not like it. What’s not to like about feeling good most of the time?

L’s orgasmic ability invariably shapes her recreation interests too.  She describes erotic parties, where people explore each other sensually, and in which she experiences many many orgasms by being touched, kissed and having sex with a selection of admiring partners.   A particular love is the combination of good food and the orgasms it gives her.  Food is a highly sexual experience for L, and she rates her dining experiences by the number of orgasms she has in the process. For example:

“Guido Gobino milk chocolate squares with bigass salt crystals

I had a bag I got at a food tasting that I’d been waiting for a special occasion to drag it out. Last night was Summer Solstice. Here in England it didn’t get dark until 10:20pm or thereabouts… The neighbours invited me over to a drinking party that went on until dawn at 3:30am. I ran back home to get the baggy and shared these gems. The first one I ate was so good I had an orgasm. They wanted seconds, so I passed out seconds. On my second one, I kind of lost track of what I was doing what with the alchohol that had been passed around and I moaned and wiggled as I came. The girl sitting next to me sussed! “Is that the chocolate?” I had to stop cumming (that’s hard!) and pretend I had been exaggerating how great the chocolate was. Then she went back to talking to whomever it was and I came again.”

This orgasmic love of food has led to a website ‘www.finediningsexcapades.com’ which provides a completely unique ‘orgasmic’ take on the usual restaurant review site. 

Seb: Your orgasmic ability means you have an interesting life which must never be boring. Are there aspects of your life and your orgasmic experiences that you would like to do, try, change or achieve in the future?

L:  I’d like to have a live in significant other who enjoys my response. I don’t have one currently. Sigh.

Seb:  I am surprised that it is hard for you to find a nice man – if I met a woman who experienced pleasure at my company in the form of multiple o’s I would be delighted. Perhaps men just think of their own performance in bed and their inability to keep up, but that just seems to indicate a lack of imagination.

L:  I find loads of nice men. What I don’t find is one that wants to be with me every night. They seem to think I’ll be too exhausting because they seem to think they’d have to perform every time they’re with me. Sigh. Just because I’m cumming doesn’t mean they have to as well.

Seb:  It is a sad indictment of males as a gender that you are finding that a difficult task to achieve.  The idea of a relationship where a hello kiss or occasionally even a look prompts an ecstatic expression and a little moan of pleasure in response, or a cuddle involves feeling your partner’s hips squirm and shift with the pleasure of orgasm – how can that not be an attractive prospect to any red-blooded male? 

I hope L finds what she is looking for.  Undoubtedly she has a bright future filled with sweet delicious, spicy ‘oh’s.

L’s website at www.finediningsexcapades.com is not quite fully operational but will soon be complete. Stay tuned.